A Celebration of the Life of Thomas Ahart
August 26 | 12 PM
Join us as we remember and celebrate the life of Thomas Ahart. View the program on the web below or view as a PDF here.
Order of Service
Prelude
William Crews
Welcome and Opening Prayer
Rev. Dr. Marcus Leathers
“Great Is Thy Faithfulness”
William Crews
Scripture Reading – Psalm 121
Tepper Gill
“How Great Thou Art”
Beverly Cosham
Scripture Reading – 1 Corinthians 13
Rev. Suzanne Rudiselle
Family Tributes
Celeste Tia Miles, Niece
James Brewer, Nephew
Britt Ahart, Son
Pamela Ahart-Steward, Daughter
“It Is Well With My Soul”
Cheryl Fields
Silent Reading of Obituary
Eulogy
Rev. Dr. Marcus Leathers
“One Humankind”
Mosaic Harmony
Closing Prayer
Rev. Elisabeth Williams
Benediction
Rev. Dr. Marcus Leathers
Obituary
April 3, 1938-July 8, 2022
Thomas Insell Ahart was born April 3, 1938 in Detroit, Michigan, to parents, Eula Maude Reid and Greek Revis Ahart. He was one of five children of this union. A second marriage of Greek Ahart and Blanche Stokes birthed two children. Thomas was raised in First Baptist Church in Southwest Detroit, and in Reston, affiliated with United Christian Parish. Tom departed this life on July 8, 2022.
Tom attended public schools in Detroit, graduating from Southwestern High School. Excelling in English, he was editor of the school newspaper and later was a contributing writer for the Michigan Chronicle, a Black-owned newspaper. Tom continued his education at Wayne State University in Detroit, graduating in 1962 with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Journalism. After undergraduate school, he studied for a year at Detroit College of Law. Throughout his years in high school and college, Tom was a working student: various jobs in high school; in college, working evenings at Detroit Receiving Hospital in the medical records department. His work ethic was a principle in his life. In addition to working and going to classes, Tom made time for university activities, socializing and having fun. He was inducted into Omega Psi Phi—an African American fraternity—in 1960 at Wayne State University. He was a leader and made substantial contributions to the chapter’s growth and development. Tom was also active in the college chapter of the NAACP, again taking a leadership role in the NAACP Youth Council.
In Virginia, Tom continued his participation in the fraternity as a charter member of Omega Psi Phi, Psi Nu Chapter in Alexandria, VA. He was a member of the Fairfax County Branch of the NAACP and served as Youth Council Advisor, as well as Co-Chair of the 2012 Freedom Fund Awards Banquet.
Tom’s first job after graduation was with the Detroit News in its advertising department. Then he moved on to Michigan Blue Cross Blue Shield as Personnel Communications Administrator. His most important job came next. He was hired at Ford Motor Company, World Headquarters in Dearborn, MI as Industrial Relations Administrator. He managed and implemented corporate policy matters and college and international recruiting. He would laugh as he would say that he thought he would be traveling all over the world but found that he was doing background research and making plans for executives to travel. Still he met influential higher-ups and other up-and-coming African American men at the company, and made lasting friends. Community service activities continued in these years as he was active with the local Jaycees, and an interest in politics blossomed. He was active with the Michigan Young Republicans. In fact, he ran for the office of Register of Deeds in Detroit when George Romney was Governor.
Tom met Menda Britton at a NAACP tri-college meeting. Meeting again six years later, their love affair began and they were married on June 26, 1965 at her hometown church, Womack Temple C.M.E. in Inkster, MI. Tom and Menda adopted two beautiful children, Pamela Michelle and Thomas Britton, who make them proud and thankful to God every day.
In 1970, Tom accepted a position to come to Washington, DC to work for the American Bankers Association as Director of Investment, MinBanc Capital Corporation, and Director of the Urban Development Committee to work with executive level bankers in developing and administering industry-wide programs related to urban economic development. He managed investments in minority owned commercial banks. He held this position until July 1977 when he resigned to become Executive Director of the National Minority Purchasing Council. This nonprofit organization was designed to promote the purchase of goods and services from minority-owned firms by major corporations. In 1972 when the council began, it brought $86 million worth of business to minority firms.
Drawing on all his professional experiences, his entrepreneurial efforts were initiated. Tom formed and served as President of The Ahart Group, Inc. The company provided a wide-range of financial brokering services to assist clients to obtain both equity and debt capital. His company also provided consulting services with non-profits: African American Adoptions, Inc. and Family and Youth Advocacy Center (FAYAC).
Tom received numerous awards and recognitions for his contributions to organizations. Tom wrote articles that appeared in several financial publications. He read the newspapers daily and did the crossword puzzles.
Tom loved his family. He loved gathering for block parties, back-yard cookouts, fish fries, with music and lots of food! He enjoyed being with family here and traveling to Detroit, Arkansas, Nebraska, Ohio, and New York. Tom enjoyed traveling—trips to Canada, Mexico, Hawaii, Europe, Kenya, the Caribbean Islands; traveling to see friends in Los Angeles, Mobile and New Orleans for Mardi Gras. He loved having fun! Most of all, Tom loved and was so proud of his children and the responsible adults they became. His grandchildren were the light of his life and his hope for the future.
To those that had the pleasure of knowing Tom Ahart, he undoubtedly made a profound impression upon them. Always with a warm greeting, a smile and a boisterous laugh, he would do all that he could to help you out and to let you know that you were cared for. He was a man whose positive strength was a presence. He was a strong provider who always ignored the strain that his mind and body endured. A man that remained committed to his family, both nuclear and extended. A man that tirelessly gave and never wanted. He was the knowledgeable voice that many turned to when wisdom was needed. He was a pillar of a man that helped to raise up and inspire more people than he may have realized. The weight of his loss is greatly felt, but the power of his impact will continue to resonate.
Tom is survived by his wife, Menda; his children, Pamela (husband Anthony), Britt (wife Laura), grandson Campbell, granddaughters, Alyssa and Reese; brothers, Gregory and Charles Ahart; sister, Mary Ann Simpson; eldest living nieces, Celeste Tia Miles, Charlene Nixon; eldest living nephews Lamont Nixon, Colden Cook, James Brewer. Preceding him in death were parents, Greek and Eula Ahart, stepmother, Blanche Ahart; sisters, Addie Elmira Cook (husband Colester), Theresa Nixon (husband Charlie), Helen Brewer; brothers, Oliver Ahart (wife Dorothy), Joseph (wife Mattie); nieces Sandra Deans, Kathleen Nixon; nephew, Kenneth Miles. A host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends mourn his passing.
Reflections
Laura Ahart (Daughter-In-Law)
I will miss so much the stories you told, they were always interesting and insightful and full of entertainment. I will miss the talks we had from current events to politics to life and death while sharing our glasses of wine. I will miss some of the quirky things you would say, “el cheapo.” I will miss how cool we thought we were because we were both Aries and no one could tell us what to do. I will miss how welcomed I felt and have always felt since the day I met you. I will miss how much you loved your grandson. I was blessed to have known a kind, giving, intelligent, successful, hilarious and forever cool man named Thomas I. Ahart and I was blessed to call him my father-in-law.
Mary Ann Simpson (Step-Sister)
Over the years I have always admired, respected and was proud of Thomas and Menda. They were educated, successful, but always down to earth. Perfect couple, great parents, loved family, God fearing and blessed with 57 years of marriage.
Durran Glover (Nephew)
I will always remember Uncle Thomas as a man of generosity and laughter. Every time he visited his sister Elmira who was my Grandmother and who I lived with, it was a huge feast and an event. Late night card playing where he and close family members would tell stories and past experiences of the family through the years. And every time these stories were told, you received new insight about your family lineage. He played a patriarchal part in my upbringing and will be missed.
Lesna Ahart (Cousin)
I looked forward to visits with Tom and Menda. We would drink red wine and share hours of old family stories. Tom would paint a picture in your mind that made you feel as if you were there. I’ll miss those good times but Tom will forever live in my mind.
Beth Cotell (Family Friend)
Tom was always the “yes man” when Pam and I were growing up: “Dad, can Beth stay over?”; “Dad, can Beth stay for dinner?”; “Dad, can you drive us to the football game/mall/friend’s house?” The answer was always YES. And he had the MOST infectious laugh EVER—it went on and on and on! Love you always my Second Dad
Alene Smith (Family Friend)
Our families have been friends for many years since you moved to Reston. My kids and grandkids even call you Uncle. God put you in our lives where your memory will remain.
Charles Smith (Fraternity Brother)
Tom was a good friend and fraternity brother for more than fifty years. He was a man of many virtues. He was the personification of the four cardinal principals of his beloved fraternity, Omega Psi Phi of MANHOOD, SCHOLARSHIP, PERSEVEREANCE, and UPLIFT. He was one of the ambassadors of the International Sister Cities Program that linked Nyeri, Kenya with Reston, VA. We will miss Tom for his laughter and upbeat personality.
V’Ali Ford (Family Friend)
Mr. Thomas Ahart has always been considered as a part of our family. As children, we were introduced to Mr. Ahart during our many visits to Reston from the Ahart’s warm invitations. We remember the time spent with Mr. Ahart, Menda, Pam, and Britt, fondly. The bond between Mr. Ahart and my father was palpable—recognizable even as children. At our father’s funeral, Mr. Ahart provided insight into our father’s childhood and early years. He and our father, Alfred Ford, weathered a difficult time in the racially turbulent 1950s and 1960s in Detroit. We will miss him, but are blessed to have known him.
Clarence Williams (Family Friend)
It’s amazing how special “moments in time” may live in the hearts of many throughout their lifetime. Brother Thomas, our friend, gentle of expression and soundness of thought, often promoted my ‘thought process! He shall be missed, especially as Christ Jesus Ministry Global Temple, prepares for 2023 Holy Convocation at the Lincoln Memorial. Susan Baron (Friend and Co-Worker) Tom came to work for me at Network Solutions as a retiree seeking to learn more about computers and save money for the children’s weddings. He was so compassionate, hardworking and a true Christian friend to me. So blessed to have shared so many years with him.
Keith Fox (Friend and Co-Worker)
I started working with Tom in 2006 as a Board member of African American Adoptions, Inc. Tom was passionate about providing for families and youth in foster care. He took me under his wing and made himself available to me with advice or information. For these experiences, I am grateful.
Mike Everett (Friend and Fellow Volunteer)
Tom Ahart was a man dedicated to serving the underprivileged and disadvantaged. He served in the Fairfax County NAACP in various offices under four presidents—Rev. Ronald Winters, Rev. Kenny Smith, Mrs. Olivia Jones-Smith, and Mr. Owen Shortt. His dedication to the Annual NAACP Banquet was unshakable. His last year of service allowed the organization to realize a net profit of $20,000 due to his ability to encourage Bank of America to sponsor the banquet for $15,000. His gift of persuasion was truly impeccable and a valuable asset for the Fairfax County Branch of the NAACP.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
The family of Thomas I. Ahart gratefully acknowledges your many condolences during our time of loss. The cards, calls, flowers, food and outpouring of love and support warmed our hearts. Thank you so very much! In lieu of flowers, donations to the United Christian Parish Crisis Fund would be greatly appreciated: ucpreston.org/give.
POEM
“We Remember Them”
By: Sylvan Ramens and Rabbi Jack Riemer
In the rising of the sun and in its going down,
We remember them.
In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter,
We remember them.
In the opening of buds and in the rebirth of spring,
We remember them.
In the blueness of the sky and in the warmth of summer,
We remember them.
In the rustling of leaves and in the beauty of autumn,
We remember them.
In the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength,
We remember them.
When we are lost and sick of heart,
We remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
So long as we live, they too shall live, for they are now a part of us,
As we remember them.
The “Tree of Life” represents family, growth & interconnectedness. The tree symbolizes that despite the passing of a loved one, the love and connectedness will remain.